Comments on: How to build self-esteem http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/nlp/how-to-build-self-esteem/ Leading People to Lead People Fri, 03 Feb 2012 10:34:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.1 By: Kathaleen Zamparini http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/nlp/how-to-build-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-3784 Kathaleen Zamparini Fri, 20 May 2011 16:08:16 +0000 http://selfleadership.com/blog/?p=112#comment-3784 Discover Your Self Worth. Have you discovered your self worth? The answer to this question for most of us will likely be no. If you go through life measuring the self worth of others by their worldly attachments it is likely that you measure your own self worth by the same criteria. Think about this for a moment. When you see a homeless person do you judge them by the state that they are presently in? Does it ever cross your mind that deep inside that person is something so amazing that it can literally change the life of thousands? You see in life you are always trying to get something, be it a better job, money, a bigger house or other material pleasures. You begin to measure your own self worth by the value of your stuff. I want you to understand that there is nothing wrong with having nice things. You just have to make sure that you do not allow your possessions to define who you are. If your self worth is defined by your accomplishments and possessions you will live an unsatisfying life. Discover Your Self Worth. Have you discovered your self worth? The answer to this question for most of us will likely be no. If you go through life measuring the self worth of others by their worldly attachments it is likely that you measure your own self worth by the same criteria. Think about this for a moment. When you see a homeless person do you judge them by the state that they are presently in? Does it ever cross your mind that deep inside that person is something so amazing that it can literally change the life of thousands? You see in life you are always trying to get something, be it a better job, money, a bigger house or other material pleasures. You begin to measure your own self worth by the value of your stuff. I want you to understand that there is nothing wrong with having nice things. You just have to make sure that you do not allow your possessions to define who you are. If your self worth is defined by your accomplishments and possessions you will live an unsatisfying life.

]]> By: Mila Kurtich http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/nlp/how-to-build-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-3783 Mila Kurtich Fri, 20 May 2011 14:46:08 +0000 http://selfleadership.com/blog/?p=112#comment-3783 Self-Esteem Tips. There are many self-esteem articles published but few have the impact these simple self-esteem tips will. Tip #1: Make a list of the things you excel at. Everyone is good at something. Sometimes it is very mundane items but other people often hold these in high esteem. Are you a great cook? Can you organize the most disorganized mess? These things may seem useless to you. They are not. Tip #2: Learn to give thanks everyday. Many people begin their daily prayers with a long list of things they are thankful for. Don’t belittle this idea. When your self-esteem is very low it may seem you have nothing to be thankful for. But they are there. Find them. Be thankful you have your health, your family, and your pet. Remember, things could always be worse. Find the small things you have to be thankful for and write them down. Tip #3: Most people look only at negative aspects of their lives. Learn how to look only at the positives. Negative thoughts will destroy your self-esteem faster than anything. L Self-Esteem Tips. There are many self-esteem articles published but few have the impact these simple self-esteem tips will. Tip #1: Make a list of the things you excel at. Everyone is good at something. Sometimes it is very mundane items but other people often hold these in high esteem. Are you a great cook? Can you organize the most disorganized mess? These things may seem useless to you. They are not. Tip #2: Learn to give thanks everyday. Many people begin their daily prayers with a long list of things they are thankful for. Don’t belittle this idea. When your self-esteem is very low it may seem you have nothing to be thankful for. But they are there. Find them. Be thankful you have your health, your family, and your pet. Remember, things could always be worse. Find the small things you have to be thankful for and write them down. Tip #3: Most people look only at negative aspects of their lives. Learn how to look only at the positives. Negative thoughts will destroy your self-esteem faster than anything. L

]]> By: Holly Hakes Petersen http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/nlp/how-to-build-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-1755 Holly Hakes Petersen Sun, 09 Aug 2009 23:52:05 +0000 http://selfleadership.com/blog/?p=112#comment-1755 Dear Andrew, I have been researching articles on self esteem building and yours is the first one I have found in the past few hours that has some real common sense approaches. I like the concepts you have presented here. Thank you for posting this. Dear Andrew,

I have been researching articles on self esteem building and yours is the first one I have found in the past few hours that has some real common sense approaches. I like the concepts you have presented here. Thank you for posting this.

]]> By: Andrew Bryant http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/nlp/how-to-build-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-1257 Andrew Bryant Sat, 02 May 2009 22:55:25 +0000 http://selfleadership.com/blog/?p=112#comment-1257 I learned it from L. Michael Hall, Ph.D. who said he learned about responsibility from Viktor Frankl. William Glasser and Otto Rank. Michael Hall said he put responsibility to/for together in the mid 1980's and has taught it as part of Neuro Semantics and the Meta-States model. Trust this helps, Andrew Bryant I learned it from L. Michael Hall, Ph.D. who said he learned about responsibility from Viktor Frankl. William Glasser and Otto Rank.

Michael Hall said he put responsibility to/for together in the mid 1980′s and has taught it as part of Neuro Semantics and the Meta-States model.

Trust this helps, Andrew Bryant

]]> By: Liz http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/nlp/how-to-build-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-1238 Liz Fri, 01 May 2009 19:26:21 +0000 http://selfleadership.com/blog/?p=112#comment-1238 I am seeking the origins of Responsible to and for as I was taught it many years ago and am recently wanting to use it with my clinical work with suicide survivors however i would like to have permission from the author of this concept do you have any information as i notice you use it in your teachings Kindly Liz Hides MSW, RSW, CT Counsellor-Suicide Services Calgary, AB I am seeking the origins of Responsible to and for as I was taught it many years ago and am recently wanting to use it with my clinical work with suicide survivors however i would like to have permission from the author of this concept do you have any information as i notice you use it in your teachings
Kindly
Liz Hides MSW, RSW, CT
Counsellor-Suicide Services
Calgary, AB

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