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		<title>Motivation and Visualisation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 01:14:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A critical skill of self leadership is the ability to motivate yourself to do what is necessary for your success. Motivation provides the energy and emotion for us to take action, but did you know that motivation has two directions? Effective motivation occurs when we are mobilised to move away from what we don&#8217;t want [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-792" title="rocket" src="http://selfleadership.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/rocket.jpg" alt="rocket" width="220" height="161" />A critical skill of <a href="http://www.selfleadership.com/services/leadership_development/self_leadership/">self leadership</a> is the ability to motivate yourself to do what is necessary for your success.</p>
<p><em><strong>Motivation</strong></em> provides the <em><strong>energy </strong></em>and <em><strong>emotion </strong></em>for us to take action, but did you know that motivation has two directions?</p>
<p>Effective motivation occurs when we are mobilised to move <em><strong>away from</strong></em> what we don&#8217;t want and are strongly <em><strong>drawn to</strong></em> what we do want. Motivation is like a rocket with a strong propulsion system to escape gravity and a guidance system to direct it to the target.<span id="more-788"></span></p>
<p>If we only want to move away from what we don&#8217;t want but do not have a clear picture of our destination we are likely to make bad choices, and if we have an idea about what we want but are still comfortable doing what we are doing, nothing will change.</p>
<p>To build a strong motivational propulsion system requires tapping into your mind&#8217;s powerful ability to <em><strong>visualise</strong></em>.</p>
<p>Start with creating a strong image of how you would like things to be, <em><strong>imagine </strong></em>anything is possible, and clearly see yourself has the person who you want to become. Fill in all the details, &#8220;what will you look like? what will you be feeling? what will you be saying? Who will be there with you?Where is this happening?&#8221; Invest your energy in this thought experiment so that you can actually smell and tast what this future will be like.</p>
<p>Now ask yourself, &#8220;do you really want this?&#8221; The answer must be a categorical &#8220;<strong>YES</strong>!&#8221; for effective motivation.</p>
<p>Now build the &#8216;Away From&#8217; propulsion. &#8220;What will happen if you don&#8217;t get your desired future? How will you feel if nothing changes? What if things stay the same for another 5,10, 15 years? Are you ready to do something about this now?&#8221;</p>
<p>If you ask yourself these questions you should feel a strong enough force to start taking action towards your future which you will find pulling on you. This creative tension is what has propelled athletes, scientists, entrepreneurs and business people to greater levels of thought and performance.</p>
<p>Once you have completed the visualisation and feel the motivation you must plan; &#8220;what steps or  stages are required to reach your target? What resources do you need? Who do you need to talk to? What mindset or attitude must you adopt?&#8221;</p>
<p>What you have experienced here is <a href="http://www.selfleadership.com/services/executive_coaching/">coaching</a>, because coaching directs a person to consider what is possible for them and co-creates an action plan to achieve it.</p>
<p>To your greatest <em><strong>success</strong></em>!</p>
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		<title>Creating a New Vision after the Meltdown</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 01:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrew Bryant, CSP, PCC</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every executive knows that they must have a vision and mission statement but in times of crisis these important documents can be forgotten. It is a bit like if you were in a boat and have set your course, but the boat springs a leak and you spend your whole time bailing water and have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-687" title="Creating a New Vision" src="http://selfleadership.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/vision.jpg" alt="Creating a New Vision" width="190" height="164" />Every executive knows that they must have a <em><strong>vision </strong></em>and <em><strong>mission </strong></em>statement but in times of crisis these important documents can be forgotten.</p>
<p>It is a bit like if you were in a boat and have set your course, but the boat springs a leak and you spend your whole time bailing water and have no time to steer.</p>
<p>William Bridges created a model of <a href="http://www.selfleadership.com/services/leadership_development/mastering_change_and_transition/">change and transition</a> that is highly relevant in today’s financial readjustment. <span id="more-680"></span>When the collapse of Lehman Brothers started the domino effect of the global crisis, many of us would have experienced first <em><strong>shock</strong></em>, then <em><strong>denial</strong></em>, <em><strong>anger </strong></em>and <em><strong>fear</strong></em>. If you lost money or a job you might then experience grief, frustration, confusion, stress and loss of control.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-688" title="Transition" src="http://selfleadership.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/transition1.jpg" alt="Transition" width="499" height="337" /></p>
<p>As an <a href="http://www.selfleadership.com/services/executive_coaching/">executive coach</a> and <a href="http://www.selfleadership.com/services/leadership_development/">leadership consultant</a> I have often witnessed this spiraling down into <em><strong>paralysis </strong></em>that Bridges calls the ‘neutral zone’. Symptoms of the neutral zone include <em><strong>ambiguity</strong></em>, <em><strong>anxiety </strong></em>and the <em><strong>absence of motivation</strong></em>. The cure for this paralysis is a new vision of what is possible.</p>
<p><em><strong>Einstein </strong></em>said that, “A problem cannot be solved with the same level of thinking that created the problem.” When in the neutral zone, we are in a dark place and our ability to <em><strong>think optimistically</strong></em> and see possibilities is severely limited. What is required is a little magic, the magic of imagination. All of human achievement started with imagination, from running a mile in under 4 minutes, to imagining what it would be like on the top of Mount Everest to imagining walking on the surface of the moon.</p>
<p><em><strong>A vision</strong></em> will inspire, motivate and engender <a href="http://www.selfleadership.com/services/leadership_development/creativity_and_innovation/">creativity </a>and it starts with using imagination to travel to the future when things will be better. The Executive who asks him/herself, <em><strong>“What is possible?” “What will we be doing when things are better?” </strong></em>To do achieve this we must take time to stop bailing the water in the boat and look to the shore. Most executives find this extremely difficult as they leave themselves little or no time to stop, step back and <a href="http://www.selfleadership.com/services/leadership_development/critical_skills_for_senior_managers/">think strategically.</a></p>
<p>With a new vision of where you are going, you and your people will become more <em><strong>optimistic</strong></em>, think creatively and start <em><strong>planning </strong></em>actions that will move you towards success.</p>
<p>It was no surprise that <em><strong>Barack Obama</strong></em> beat John McCain; Dr Martin Seligman in his book &#8216;Learned Optimism&#8217; talks about his analysis of US elections based on the number of positive or optimistic comments made by the candidates. Obama clearly offered a more optimistic view of the future and thus captured the popular vote.</p>
<p>Obama is being called a <a href="http://selfleadership.com/blog/topic/leadership/transformational-leadership/">transformational leader</a> because he:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">1. Created a <em><strong>vision </strong></em>that inspired the American voters (and the world) to believe that there were new possibilities.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">2. Stimulates <em><strong>people </strong></em>to think, to re-examine their ideas and find creative alternatives. Such an environment breeds imagination and innovation.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">3. Treats people as individuals making people feel <em><strong>valued </strong></em>and encouraging them to contribute. He recognizes that people have unique talents, strengths and weakness and allowing for these differences without judgment.</p>
<p>The <em><strong>transformational leader</strong></em> must have what I like to call &#8216;realistic optimism&#8217; which is a practical and pragmatic approach that is ideally suited to the current climate. Realistic optimism is the mindset that we can make the best of any circumstance; it is the acceptance that bad things do happen but with a healthy self-esteem and the confidence in our abilities we can overcome adversity, learn from the situation and be even better for the experience.</p>
<p>Optimism without<em><strong> right actions</strong></em> and following <em><strong>sound principles</strong></em> will not be enough. Lehman Brothers failed because of over-optimism and the senior management not being in alignment with their own company&#8217;s vision and values.</p>
<p>In the current climate it is tempting to focus on immediate need and make tactical rather than <em><strong>strategic decisions</strong></em>; I urge you to step back for a moment, get in touch with your personal or company vision and ask yourself, &#8220;<em><strong>Is this decision the right one for the long term?</strong></em>&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.selfleadership.com/about/team/">Andrew Bryant</a> is the Director of Self Leadership International and is based in <em><strong>Singapore </strong></em>but travels extensively as an executive coach and leadership consultant.</p>
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