Anthony or Tony Robbins is one of the most recognized personalities in the personal growth and personal power space, but do his methods work? Â
 And, is he priming you for success or his own profit?
 Books by Tony Robbins include Unleash the Power Within, Unlimited Power, and, Awaken the Giant Within. Standing at 2.1 meters, with a large jaw and hands, he is quite literally a giant himself.
 If you have not seen this, larger-than-life, life strategist, at one of his rock concert-like events, then you can watch his Netflix documentary - Iâm not your guru.
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Iâm not your guru is about what happens behind the scenes at one of his six-day Date With Destiny seminars.
Iâm not your guru, an interesting title, because Robbins studied Neuro-Linguistic Programming, NLP, from its founders Richard Bandler and John Grinder.
NLP owes a lot to the hypnotic techniques of Dr. Milton Erikson, who would use a negative statement to implant or prime an idea.
It often starts with a phone call or a message. Suddenly the world is different, and you must reorient yourself, or be overwhelmed by feelings of helplessness.
Whatever the bad news, financial, relationship, reputation, or health, with the application of self-leadership we can apply strategies. Self-leadership strategies to intentionally influence our thinking, feeling, and actions. To once more become the âCaptain of our Shipâ, or the âMaster of our Soulâ.
Four weeks ago, I visited my family doctor, and as Iâm just turning 60, I asked proactively for a full health screen. I did this because I knew it was the right thing to do, given my age and family history, not because I was experiencing any symptoms, quite the reverse in fact. My frame of mind was, therefore, âthis is one more thing to check off the listâ.
Then the phone call came, and my world changed.
âAndrew, this is Dr. Seah, your blood shows a Cancer Marker, and you are going to need a CAT scan as w...
Tough times don't last but tough people do, is a quote that has often inspired me to keep going. Recent global disruptions are frustrating, disorientating, and very sad, and yes, itâs OK to feel the emotions that come with these upheavals. For those who have a roof over their head and food in their belly, it's a time to discover whatâs really important and what you are made of.
In my 2012 book on Self-leadership with Dr. Ana Kazan, we described Self-leadership as:
"the practice of intentionally influencing your thinking, feeling and actions towards your objectivesâ
Right now we need to be practicing self-leadership and one way of 're-framing' how we think about things is through quotes. I'm sure you have your favorite quote that you turn to, to get you through tough times, but to get you started:
1.    âMastering others is strength; mastering oneself is true powerâ - Lao Tsu
2.    âThe first and best victory is to conquer selfâ - Plato
3.    âKnowing yo...